In today's world, people's views on love and dating are changing a lot, and there's a lot of debate about what’s fair and what’s not. One big topic of discussion is whether a man should financially support his partner. Many people have strong opinions about this, especially online.
One example is a TikTok user named Gabby Fe (@itsgabbyfe). She recently shared a video that went viral where she explained her views on dating. Gabby believes that if a man is interested in her, he should not only pay for the dinner but also cover her Uber rides to and from the date.
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In her video, Gabby says, "I expect the man I'm interested in to pay for the entire date, including my Uber rides to and from the location." She explains that she wants to see if the man can afford these expenses as a way of checking if he’s financially responsible.
Gabby also mentioned that if a man can’t afford a nice dinner and an Uber, she questions if he would be able to handle bigger commitments like kids, a house, or paying bills.
Many viewers had mixed reactions to her video. Some thought Gabby was asking for too much. One commenter said, “You are asking for quite a lot.” Another felt it was premature to discuss future expenses like kids and a house on a first date: “You’re worried about kids and a house on the first date?”
Some people even suggested that Gabby should be happy just to get a date. One user commented, “You’re lucky if you can get a date.”
Gabby later posted another video showing that she was going on a third date with a man who had no problem paying for dinner and her Uber ride. In the video, Gabby is dressed in a pink blouse, smiling at the camera.
However, some people doubted her story, accusing her of lying. Comments like “Going for coffee on your own again then enjoy” and “She is as credible as Carlee Russell” questioned the truth of her claims.
Overall, while Gabby's views on dating sparked a lot of discussions and differing opinions, it shows how expectations in modern dating can vary greatly.
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(via TikTok - Gabby Fe